April 20, 2012 By Cassy
     Posted in Military Life, Military News, Opinion
PTSD: civilians just love to paint veterans as riddled with this disease,  causing them to become violent, unhinged lunatics who will explode at the  slightest provocation.  Look at just about any news story where a violent crime  is committed by a veteran, and PTSD is almost immediately floated as the reason.  In the media narrative, violence and PTSD go hand-in-hand.  At the same time,  troops are criticized for not coming forward and admitting they have a problem,  and seeking help for it.  (Gee, could it possibly be because we paint veterans  with PTSD as homicidal lunatics?)
Dr. Phil, arguably one of the most popular talk show hosts on the planet,  decided to feature this issue on his show this week.  And while he could have  taken a reasonable approach, he went straight for the gut instead.  Titling the  show “From Heroes To Monsters”, he painted a picture of vets with PTSD as  ticking time bombs of violence, describing them as damaged goods who “destroy  families” and “dismantle marriages”.
One of Dr. Phil’s guests, Matt, is a former Marine who struggles with PTSD.   He speaks about how, while deployed to Afghanistan, he repeatedly stabbed an  enemy combatant in the face, even after he was dead, to get his anger out.  He  also claims he saw “lots” of innocent people killed, including women and  children.  (His last name isn’t given, so it’s impossible to verify his claims  of killing women and children while deployed to Afghanistan.)
After Matt, Dr. Phil featured Mark and Heather.  Mark is another veteran with  PTSD who admits he has violent rages, says his life has been destroyed, and is  afraid of what he will do to his family.  Heather’s husband, Duane, had PTSD.   He beat her and set her on fire. 
The common thread between all of these stories: violence.  Did Dr. Phil ever  stop to point out that most veterans with PTSD don’t end up setting their wives  on fire or stabbing people repeatedly in the face?  Of course not.  Indeed,  recent research has found that the  link between PTSD and violent behavior is actually weak.  Another dirty  little secret Dr. Phil didn’t feel was necessary to point out: civilians get  PTSD, too.  In fact, anyone can get it — anyone who has been through a trauma.  According  to the VA, about 7-8% of the general population will get PTSD at some point  in their lives.  For veterans, the risk is slightly higher, although not by much  at 11-20%.  And, believe it or not, the symptoms of PTSD do not include sudden  violence such as setting your wife on fire or stabbing people in the face.  Common symptoms  include reliving the event, avoiding situations that remind you of it,  feeling numb, feeling jittery, suddenly being angry or irritable, having trouble  sleeping, etc.  Setting your wife on fire?  Not so much a normal occurrence.   While relationship problems and violence may occur, acting as if it is  a foregone conclusion (as Dr. Phil did) and saying that vets with PTSD are “monsters” is ridiculous and offensive. 
It has been noted time and again, including  here at You Served, that there is a stigma associated with veterans who have  PTSD.  While things may slowly be getting better, we still have a long way to  go.  And clearly, that goes for civilians as well.  When the leading daytime  talk show host runs a show calling veterans with PTSD “monsters” and “damaged  goods”, it’s no wonder that there is a stigma attached to PTSD.  The media  gleefully paints vets who struggle with it as ticking time bombs, as stereotypes  of lunatics about to snap at any given moment.  The narrative isn’t new… but I  don’t ever recall seeing veterans being so blatantly insulted by being called “monsters” and “damaged goods”.  
I’m curious if Dr. Phil honestly thinks it’s helpful to paint such a  negative, violent picture of veterans struggling with PTSD.  I would wager he  doesn’t care at all about how this affects our military.  Because if he did,  this show wouldn’t have existed.  What he has done is continue to spread a false  and harmful narrative about our troops, which spreads the stigma associated with  PTSD even further.  And what does that do?  It encourages veterans who are  struggling with symptoms of PTSD to become even more reluctant to come forward  and seek help.  Why would they?  They’re being told that they’re monsters,  damaged goods, violent abusive lunatics.  While Dr. Phil is by no means the only  perpetrator, this is by far the worst example I have seen in the media.
Having PTSD does not make you “damaged goods”.  Does having cancer make  someone damaged?  What about depression, or bipolar disorder, or any number of  other diseases?  Telling someone who has PTSD that they are a monster and  therefore need to get help makes about as much sense as telling a woman who has  breast cancer that she’s damaged goods and therefore needs chemotherapy.  It’s  not going to encourage anyone to actually seek help.  What it will surely do for  vets, though, is reinforce the idea that they are somehow broken, that they’ll  be judged and punished for having PTSD, and make them think that they are right  to not tell anyone and to not get help.  None of our troops who are afflicted  with PTSD are monsters, they are not damaged, and 99% of them are not violent,  homicidal maniacs about to snap at any moment.  
The men and women who serve in our Armed Forces give up so much.  They  sacrifice their time with their families, their bodies, and their lives.  For  some, they sacrifice their mental health.  This does not make them broken, or  crazy, or violent, and it especially does not make them monsters.   Meanwhile, here is Dr. Phil, taking the sacrifice and exploiting it, calling our  troops — who have already given up so much for us — monsters.  He should be  ashamed of himself.  
Read more at YouServed: http://www.vamortgagecenter.com/blog/2012/04/20/dr-phil-vets-with-ptsd-are-damaged-goods-monsters/#ixzz1saucbxPl
 
A while ago I noticed that, when asked what I did in Iraq, the underlying question was really "How many people did you kill?" Nobody cares how many soccer balls we handed out to the children or how many parks we built they just want to hear all about the violence. Since then I've come to the conclusion that the undereducated among the general population actually want us to be "monsters" hence the Dr Phil's of the world have simply found a way to pander to the ignorant masses and profit from our pain. You don't heal a broken arm by smashing it over and over again with a hammer so how are we supposed to heal when we're constantly being "smashed" in the media and by fake "doctors" with their own talk shows that, unfortunately, reach millions?
ReplyDeleteAgreed and very good points. It is very easy to draw upon the negative and focus simply on that. People don't care that we helped build schools or that we provided security to construction workers while they repaired roads.
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